Saturday, January 19, 2013

Honor And Respect

I love this:


“... What really matters is that he will love you,that he will respect you, that he will honor you, that he will be absolutely true to you, that he will give you the freedom of expression and let you fly in the development of your own talents. He is not going to be perfect, but if he is kind and thoughtful, if he knows how to work and earn a living, if he is honest and full of faith, the chances are you will not go wrong, that you will be immensely happy.” Gordon B. Hinckley





I want to add to this that if you don't have this type of man in your life, hope in not always lost.  With love and encouragement, the men in our lives can change.  They don't always choose to change, and I love what President Faust has said about that.

'What, then, might be “just cause” for breaking the covenants of marriage? Over a lifetime of dealing with human problems, I have struggled to understand what might be considered “just cause” for breaking of covenants. I confess I do not claim the wisdom or authority to definitively state what is “just cause.” Only the parties to the marriage can determine this. They must bear the responsibility for the train of consequences which inevitably follow if these covenants are not honored. In my opinion, “just cause” should be nothing less serious than a prolonged and apparently irredeemable relationship which is destructive of a person’s dignity as a human being.'  James E. Faust Ensign, May 1993

He then goes on to state this from the same talk:

'At the same time, I have strong feelings about what is not provocation for breaking the sacred covenants of marriage. Surely it is not simply “mental distress,” nor “personality differences,” nor having “grown apart,” nor having “fallen out of love.” This is especially so where there are children.
....
In my opinion, members of the Church have the most effective cure for our decaying family life. It is for men, women, and children to honor and respect the divine roles of both fathers and mothers in the home.  '



I would add to President Faust that if you are a mother or a father and you do not respect your divine role as such, that you can change and there is help for you if you truly want to change.  I know because I have found that help.

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Another Funny Bruce...

Jared, Bruce (3 years old) and I were driving down the freeway the other day in our new little Saturn car.  Bruce is sitting in his booster seat in the back seat.  So... Bruce burps and says, "My mouth has bad gas."  LOL  Here he is with cute Vanessa.  This picture is a little old, but still so cute.



Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Our Search For Happiness

I love to find meaningful expressions that cause me to ponder and think.  I love this one that Apostle James E. Faust quoted in a speech he gave some years ago.  The speech is called Our Search For Happiness

'In the story The Little Prince, the fox was wiser than he knew when he said, "Now here is my secret, a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye" (Antoine de Saint-ExupĂ©ry, The Little Prince, trans. Katherine Woods [New York: Harcourt, Brace and World, 1943], 70). '


How true!  We can only see right when we look with our hearts!  Of course, if you have spiritual heart problems, or diseases, you won't see anything rightly.  But what is most beautiful about that is that you can go to the Savior of the world to be cured of such heart problems and diseases!  I know this is true!

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Electric Blanket

After 2 months of Jared watching me hide under my covers in order to get warm, he had had enough.  He went out today and bought an electric blanket for me.  He said, "I can't stand watching you freeze over there anymore."  Ahhh, how sweet!  I took a nap with it today, and WOW what a difference!  I'm with you Kimi, and I'll be warming up under this blanket from now on.

Monday, January 7, 2013

For Pie Lovers


We are pie lovers around here and I'm hoping to give this recipe a try in the near future.  Thanks to http://leslieland.com/blog/ for the recipe.

PROCESSOR SOUR CREAM PIE CRUST
It’s not only fast, it’s also extremely tender while still being much flakier than the usual wham-bam processor pastry doughs.
It’s not quite as flaky as Rough Puff (below; if you look intently at the picture you’ll see RP has many more layers) and it’s so tender it can sog under the weight of a lot of juicy fruit. But even then it doesn’t sog badly.
And that same tenderness – aka undeveloped gluten – makes it behave itself when being pre-baked for custard and chiffon pies like Mamie Eisenhower’s Pumpkin Pie. Although it softens quickly at room temperature, that’s not a problem if you roll it out between sheets of waxed paper. Should it start looking greasy and slack, just throw the whole sandwich in the fridge until it firms up again.
For 2 (9 inch) crusts:
2 c. all purpose flour
1 tsp. sugar
½ tsp. salt
½ lb. cold butter
1/3 to ½ c. sour cream
1. Put flour, sugar and salt in a processor fitted with the steel blade. Pulse to mix.
2. Cut the butter into 10 or 12 pieces, drop them into the flour mixture and stir (I use a table knife) to coat each piece with flour.
3. Pulse until you have coarse but relatively even meal.
4. Dollop on the smaller amount of sour cream and pulse about 10 times. If the dough has started clumping together, you’re good. If there’s no sign of cohesion, add a bit more sour cream before pulsing again. Divide the clumpy material into 2  piles, placing each on a sheet of plastic wrap. Use the plastic to gently nudge the dough into a disc. Wrap in the plastic and chill at least 4 hours before rolling out.
Note: The basics of this recipe are in no way original to me, but there’s no knowing who first thought of combining the  bit of sour (classically vinegar), to inhibit gluten formation and the use of cream for moistening, which ups the fat content.
Cross sections of piecrust cookies: Sour Cream is at the top, Rough Puff underneath
Cross sections of piecrust cookies: Sour Cream is at the top, Rough Puff underneath
REVERSE ROUGH PUFF PASTRY
This is not classic “rough puff paste,” a genuine pastry recipe that’s almost as much of a pain to make as real deal puff paste itself. Instead, it’s an old fashioned pie crust and puff paste, discovered years ago when I tried a piecrust recipe that had too much fat in it. Not wishing to waste all that butter, lard and washing of the processor, I rolled out the over-rich pastry on a heavily floured surface, sprinkling it with flour at frequent intervals and turning it over from time to time.
Then I folded it. One time (see instructions). Chilled, rolled and chilled again. Voila – flakes! – not nearly as many as puff pastry but still plenty enough. RRP isn’t as tender as sour cream pastry or as light as true puff paste but it’s better than either one for old fashioned double crust fruit pies. The number of steps makes it look time-consuming and complicated. It isn’t.
For 2 (9-10 inch crusts)
2 oz ( ¼ c.) cold lard*
5 oz (10 tbl.) cold butter
1 ½ tsp.lemon juice
½ c. ice water
2 ½ c. all purpose flour
½ tsp. salt
1. Cut the butter and lard into roughly tablespoon-sized pieces. Refrigerate until firm again.
2. Put a wide, shallow mixing bowl in the fridge to chill. Mix the lemon juice with the water and put it in the fridge too. In a processor with the metal blade, pulse 2 c. of the flour and salt to mix.
3. Distribute the fat bits over the flour and stir ( I use a table knife ) to more or less coat each piece with flour.
4. Pulse briefly, just until the fats are in baby lima to pea sized lumps. Transfer the mixture to the chilled bowl.
5. Pour in the water, making a circle about an inch in from the sides of the bowl. Using a fork or your fingertips, toss the mixture until it (mostly) clumps; there will probably be some unincorporated material.
6. Set out 2 large sheets of plastic wrap and put half of the the proto-dough on each. Use the plastic to gently nudge the disparate elements into a tight heap. Wrap tightly and chill at least 4 hours.
7. Remove a heap from the fridge and let it warm up for 10 minutes or so. It should now be willing to coalesce. Using the plastic wrap, manipulate it into a rough rectangle.
8. Sprinkle a work surface with half of the remaining flour and put the dough on it. Press to embed some flour, turn it over and press again. Roll out about 1/8 inch thick, turning and flouring lightly as you go. There will probably be a little flour left over.
9. Fold the dough the long way into thirds, top over center, bottom over top. Fold in the sides by thirds, one over the center, the other on top of it. Wrap in plastic and refrigerate. Repeat with remaining dough and flour.
Pictures below: Left – Dough with big fat lumps just starting to be rolled out. Right – Folded and ready to chill.
leslie land rough puff first roll
leslie land rough puff folded
10. Chill at least 12 hours before rolling out between sheets of waxed paper; then chill again at least an hour, still in the paper,  before fitting it into the pan or making the cheese straws or whatever. All that manipulation makes the dough elastic and if it doesn’t get time to relax the pastry will be tough.
* About that lard: When it’s the real thing, carefully rendered, pure white, solid and innocent of preservatives, this unique fat is unbeatable for making classic piecrust. In addition to enhancing flakiness, good lard adds a subtle, toasty  note that gives depth to the crust flavor. Alas, it’s not easy to find, and the processed lard in boxes in supermarkets isn’t an adequate substitute. Somehow it’s even greasier-tasting than solid shortening, with a whiff of pig thrown in. If good lard eludes you, use all butter; make sure it’s high-fat European style and put in an extra tablespoon.
 Reverse Rough Puff looking more like itself
Reverse Rough Puff scraps in use
Concerning the make-ahead part promised in the last post:
ALL pie crust is (or should be) make-ahead. Standard recipes are always on about chill this and chill that and don’t work it etc. etc. and all of these things are worth paying attention to. But one of the most important – and easiest! – ways to ensure tenderness in piecrust is to let the newly-made dough have a good rest before you roll it out. Tightly wrapped, pie dough keeps in the refrigerator for 3 or 4 days and it freezes very well so there’s no excuse for rushing it.
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Sunday, January 6, 2013

Changes



We recently sold Jared's truck.  Jared had a mix of feelings as he sold it.  He was sad and happy, and melancholy all at the same time.  He has gone through so many changes the last few years and with the sale of this truck it was like the last string cut from his job at his Dad's gravestone company.

On the other hand, I am relieved.


This van is sold as well.  It was good to us over the last 10 years.

We bought a navy blue Suburban which seats 8 of us comfortably.  It is a gas guzzler though.
We also bought a silver Saturn which is a small economy car.  We're told it can get up to 40 miles per gallon of gasoline on the highway.  We'll see.