Friday, February 22, 2013

Room For Jesus


'Only greater consecration will cure ambivalence and casualness in any of us! As already noted, the tutoring challenges arising from increased consecration may be severe but reflect the divine mercy necessary to induce further consecration. (See Hel. 12:3.) If we have grown soft, hard times may be necessary. Deprivation may prepare us for further consecration, though we shudder at the thought. If we are too easily contented, God may administer a dose of divine discontent. His long-suffering thus becomes very necessary to maximize our agency and development. But He is not an indulgent Father.
We “cannot bear all things now,” but the Lord “will lead [us] along,” as we “give place” in our thoughts and schedules and “give away” our sins, which are the only ways we can begin to make room to receive all that God can give us. (D&C 78:18D&C 50:4Alma 32:27, 28Alma 22:18.)
Each of us is an innkeeper who decides if there is room for Jesus!
Consecration is the only surrender which is also a victory. It brings release from the raucous, overpopulated cell block of selfishness and emancipation from the dark prison of pride.'
I love that each of us is an innkeeper who decides if there is room for Jesus.  This is a marvelous talk given by Neal A. Maxwell.  

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Laboring

In my morning study of a talk given in General Conference 1987, I read this by Robert D. Hales, who was then Presiding Bishop in the church:

May the prayer of Alma also be our prayer:
“O Lord, wilt thou comfort my soul, and give unto me success, and also my fellow laborers who are with me. …
“Wilt thou grant unto them that they may have strength, that they may bear their afflictions which shall come upon them. …
“O Lord, wilt thou grant unto us that we may have success in bringing them again unto thee in Christ.
“Behold, O Lord, their souls are precious, and many of them are our brethren; therefore, give unto us, O Lord, power and wisdom that we may bring these, our brethren, again unto thee” (Alma 31:32–35).
“We love you; we miss you; we need you. Please come back.” Come back to go to the temple, enter into the covenants, and receive the ordinances of eternal salvation.


It got me to thinking about how to reach out to lost souls and who is in my circle of influence who needs reaching out to.  I have learned that it is sacred work to reach out and in that process we strengthen our own spiritual underpinnings.

It is one of my favorite things in the scriptures to read others' prayers.  

It is also interesting to note that the title of this post is laboring.  When you think of a woman who is laboring to bring a new life into this world, it is work indeed.  It is hard.  It requires focus and determination.  But it is worth every effort because the new life that is brought into the world is so innocent and beautiful!

Friday, February 15, 2013

The Kids

Valentines Day was nice.  When the kids got home from school, Jared and I had filled little sacks with candy and treats and had hidden them around the house.  The kids had to go searching like a treasure hunt for their sack.  Once they found a sack, they had to look on the outside of the sack to see if was their name on it.  Joseph found 4 of the sacks.  It was really fun.

Vanessa is in 8th grade and they had a dance over at the school.  Vanessa got asked to dance by a boy that she really likes.  She was pretty happy about that.  The girls in our neighborhood love and look up to her.  She never has a hard time finding a friend to do something with.  She is 13 years 9 months old.

Bruce is becoming more independent and able to entertain himself and play by himself better recently.  He is 3 and a half years old.

Rex has been arguing more with us lately.  He wants his way and has been having a hard time just obeying.  He loves healthy foods and is easy to please.  He has a large group of friends at school and in our neighborhood.  Kids love him.  He is 7 years old.

Joseph is a very helpful child.  He is motivated by rewards.  He likes to tell his side to every situation, and wants to be right even when he isn't right.  There aren't many kids his age in our neighborhood that are his age.  He is 10 years 7 months old.

Eric is in the famous grumpy pre-pubescence stage.  He is very sensitive to how his body looks and how he is different than a lot of the other kids at his school.  He has a lot friends too.  He is 12 years 7 months old.


                                               
About 18 months ago!  The whole group!




Vanessa is such a sweetheart.

Vanessa and Eric are good friends.  They are 14 months apart.

Monday, February 11, 2013

Pretzel



Soft Pretzels

1 1/2 cups warm water
1 T sugar
2 tsp. kosher salt
1 T yeast
22 ounces all-purpose flour, approximately 4 1/2 cups

2 c. boiling water
1/4 C. baking soda

4 ounces butter, melted

Combine the water, sugar, salt, yeast, and flour in a stand mixer and beat until they form a soft, not-too-sticky dough. Knead the dough for 5 minutes in the mixer or by hand. [We always do the last couple minutes by hand; I love to knead and so do ALL the children, who each have to have their turns]. Then let it rise for an hour. [The KAF recipe says just to let it "rest" for 30 minutes, but we went ahead with the longer rise.]

*NOTE: Some recipes have you immerse the pretzels in a boiling water/baking soda solution for a minute or two, and others use just hot water---but the KAF recipe is the only one I've seen that actually calls for a "soak" in the soda bath---not boiling, just lukewarm.  I've used the boiling-water-dip in the past, but with kids helping, the soaking option seemed easier, so we gave that a try. And I was very pleased with the results! So I think I'll use that method from now on.

While the dough is rising, prepare the soda bath. Mix 2 cups boiling water with 1/4 c baking soda, stirring until the soda is totally (or almost totally) dissolved. Set the mixture aside to cool to lukewarm (or cooler). Then pour it into a cake pan or other shallow pan.

When the dough is puffy, divide it into pieces and roll out each piece into a long snake. Let the "snake" rest for 5 minutes (to let the gluten relax) and then twist it into a pretzel shape.

In batches of 6-7 at a time (however many you can fit in the soda-bath pan), put the shaped pretzels into the soda bath. Spoon the solution over them so their tops and bottoms are covered, then let them sit for 2 minutes. Remove them from the bath, place them on a greased baking sheet [they say use parchment paper, but that didn't work well at ALL for us---it stuck to their bottoms terribly!], and sprinkle them with kosher salt. Let them rest for 10 minutes, and then bake them at 450 for 8-9 minutes or until golden brown.

When the pretzels come out of the oven, brush them immediately with melted butter. Then eat them while warm. They are SO GOOD!



Doesn't this look like a yummy recipe?  I am going to try it!  I got it from this website:  
http://nielsonschool.blogspot.com/


Dad's Heart Attack

My Dad is doing alright.  He is weak and will need some rehab.  I am so glad that he didn't die because there is some repair work that needs to happen in our relationship and I would have been VERY sad not to have had the chance to do that.

In his own words in his recent email letter to our family:

'The story about me goes: Last Sunday, I lived through something that I should have died from. After 7 years of dealing with two stage four cancer tumors and now a massive heart attack that has left me with 3/4 of a heart that works, I am well adjusted to my own mortality. You don't need to tippy toe around me. We can joke about me and discuss it any time you want. Just don't ask me how I am doing. I mean I am a double stage four cancer guy who just had a massive heart attack. I am doing terrible as far as normal is concerned. But, I am having a ball in most other ways..

Here is my history leading up to the MI (Myocardial Infarction or heart attack). Three or four years ago when my total cholesterol was in the 240 range, triglycerides 350, I felt a heavy feeling, not actual pain, around my heart in my chest after eating burger king hamburgers. And, I still love them. This feeling was broadened to include brownies made with butter, beef roast, five or six broiled pieces of chicken breast which I loved the spices on them and ice cream by the 1/2 gallon. Any fat filled food gave me that feeling. The heavy feeling would go away after an hour or so and if I drank a few glasses of water.

One week ago Friday, as I was shoveling snow, I couldn't lift the shovel like normal. There was pain around the heart which I discounted and drank some water and took an aspirin. The pain went away. Then a few hours later, it came back.  Both arms ached like bad. The same through Saturday, every 5-6 hours an episode of pain that didn't go away for 30 minutes or so.. Sunday morning at 0500 in my little bathroom the pain was so severe and unrelenting that I knew it wasn't going away. I yelled to Myra, "Call 911." She panicked and said, "Are you sure? I don't know how." I yelled  back, "Figure it out and hurry." The pain was crushing in the upper chest. I started sweating on the forehead and neck. I walked to the living room and collapsed on the sofa. The EMT team arrived in a few minutes, two ambulances and a fire truck and we sped away to the hospital. 

They ran an EKG which was normal and drew cardiac blood tests which were normal. This was a huge puzzle as I was moaning in very severe pain. Finally, an older doctor came to me and said, There is a little spot on the last EKG that shouldn't be there. I FEEL as if you are having a heart attack. If it is what I think it is you need a stent right away. We are sending you directly to the front of the line in the cardiac catheter lab. (There were four other old men snow shovellers who were being worked up for stents). On the table upstairs the doctor came to me and said, "Mr Taylor, you are having a heart attack as we speak. We will insert the stent right now." They ran the tube through the femoral artery starting in the groin up to the center of the heart, dissolved the clot with blood thinners, placed the double stents and finally relief of the horrible pain. The rest is boring. The crisis was resolved. I haven't felt any pain since and I don't expect I will. That old heavy feeling is also gone. I believe I am more healthy than I have been in many years since my veins are clear. I hope my heart will recover to at least 90% which they said might happen after several months.'


Thursday, February 7, 2013

Love and Chili

Jared has become quite the cook.  He loves to make us chili.  He loves experimenting with different spices.  The chili is delicious!  The kids don't like it as much as the canned stuff, but I do.

I feel so blessed!  Heavenly Father has been so good to our family.  We have made several changes over the last few years and they have seriously tried our marriage.  But, we have come through it and are not only just surviving this life together as a married couple, we are thriving in it.  Jared continues to find dignity and respect at his new job.  And we both continue to find out what a marriage filled with love is all about.

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Heart Attack

My Dad had a heart attack on Sunday, and has been in the hospital for the last 3 days.  I had Jared text my Mom and ask how he is doing.  She said he has been through a lot and the doctors said that he is weak and shouldn't have visitors like us right now.  He is 71 years old.

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Violin and Basketball

Vanessa is on to her next item in her bucket list of things she wants done.  She got braces a couple of weeks ago.  The orthodontist told her she'll have them on for about 16 months.  She only has them on the top because the bottom teeth are fine.  Hopefully, by putting them only on the top it won't ruin her bite, thereby needing to put them on the bottom as well.

Vanessa is also working on a violin piece by Lindsey Stirling.  She is working on perfecting it to perform at an audition on February 9th.  If she gets chosen, she'll get to be part of an orchestra that will perform somewhere, I'm not sure where though.  She is getting really good at the Lindsey Stirling piece called Crystallize.

Eric is playing basketball at the church with the Deacons Quorum.  The Bishopric asked Jared to be the coach.  It is fun watching Eric play.  He isn't very good, but he has had hardly any exposure to basketball.


Birth

We have spent the last several weeks catching one sickness after another.  It is our Stake Conference today and we are missing it because of fevers and tummy bugs.  We thought Rex had strep throat again, after his bout of it 2 months ago, but his fever went down and he is looking better today.

I have been thinking a lot lately about having another child.  It has been on my mind more and more lately and since I just turned 38, I realize that I'm getting closer and closer to that window closing on me forever.  As I've thought of bringing children into this world, it occurs to me more and more that there is a connection between the desire of bringing children into this world and allowing new life to come into my heart.  The Lord has worked a wonderful work in my life and he continues to do so.  But, like birth control or the barriers we can place in order to prevent conception, we can also place barriers in our lives that prevent the Lord from being able to put new life into us.

I'm studying about this right now and learning that I don't trust the Lord as much as I should.  I think of my own children and it offends me when they don't trust me.  I can imagine how the Lord feels when I don't trust Him.

Furthermore, as I have been yearning to trust Heavenly Father more, I have been thinking of the birth process and how I haven't trusted that process.  I have been studying midwifery and considering the idea of going to school to become a midwife.

Saturday, January 19, 2013

Honor And Respect

I love this:


“... What really matters is that he will love you,that he will respect you, that he will honor you, that he will be absolutely true to you, that he will give you the freedom of expression and let you fly in the development of your own talents. He is not going to be perfect, but if he is kind and thoughtful, if he knows how to work and earn a living, if he is honest and full of faith, the chances are you will not go wrong, that you will be immensely happy.” Gordon B. Hinckley





I want to add to this that if you don't have this type of man in your life, hope in not always lost.  With love and encouragement, the men in our lives can change.  They don't always choose to change, and I love what President Faust has said about that.

'What, then, might be “just cause” for breaking the covenants of marriage? Over a lifetime of dealing with human problems, I have struggled to understand what might be considered “just cause” for breaking of covenants. I confess I do not claim the wisdom or authority to definitively state what is “just cause.” Only the parties to the marriage can determine this. They must bear the responsibility for the train of consequences which inevitably follow if these covenants are not honored. In my opinion, “just cause” should be nothing less serious than a prolonged and apparently irredeemable relationship which is destructive of a person’s dignity as a human being.'  James E. Faust Ensign, May 1993

He then goes on to state this from the same talk:

'At the same time, I have strong feelings about what is not provocation for breaking the sacred covenants of marriage. Surely it is not simply “mental distress,” nor “personality differences,” nor having “grown apart,” nor having “fallen out of love.” This is especially so where there are children.
....
In my opinion, members of the Church have the most effective cure for our decaying family life. It is for men, women, and children to honor and respect the divine roles of both fathers and mothers in the home.  '



I would add to President Faust that if you are a mother or a father and you do not respect your divine role as such, that you can change and there is help for you if you truly want to change.  I know because I have found that help.

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Another Funny Bruce...

Jared, Bruce (3 years old) and I were driving down the freeway the other day in our new little Saturn car.  Bruce is sitting in his booster seat in the back seat.  So... Bruce burps and says, "My mouth has bad gas."  LOL  Here he is with cute Vanessa.  This picture is a little old, but still so cute.



Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Our Search For Happiness

I love to find meaningful expressions that cause me to ponder and think.  I love this one that Apostle James E. Faust quoted in a speech he gave some years ago.  The speech is called Our Search For Happiness

'In the story The Little Prince, the fox was wiser than he knew when he said, "Now here is my secret, a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye" (Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince, trans. Katherine Woods [New York: Harcourt, Brace and World, 1943], 70). '


How true!  We can only see right when we look with our hearts!  Of course, if you have spiritual heart problems, or diseases, you won't see anything rightly.  But what is most beautiful about that is that you can go to the Savior of the world to be cured of such heart problems and diseases!  I know this is true!

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Electric Blanket

After 2 months of Jared watching me hide under my covers in order to get warm, he had had enough.  He went out today and bought an electric blanket for me.  He said, "I can't stand watching you freeze over there anymore."  Ahhh, how sweet!  I took a nap with it today, and WOW what a difference!  I'm with you Kimi, and I'll be warming up under this blanket from now on.

Monday, January 7, 2013

For Pie Lovers


We are pie lovers around here and I'm hoping to give this recipe a try in the near future.  Thanks to http://leslieland.com/blog/ for the recipe.

PROCESSOR SOUR CREAM PIE CRUST
It’s not only fast, it’s also extremely tender while still being much flakier than the usual wham-bam processor pastry doughs.
It’s not quite as flaky as Rough Puff (below; if you look intently at the picture you’ll see RP has many more layers) and it’s so tender it can sog under the weight of a lot of juicy fruit. But even then it doesn’t sog badly.
And that same tenderness – aka undeveloped gluten – makes it behave itself when being pre-baked for custard and chiffon pies like Mamie Eisenhower’s Pumpkin Pie. Although it softens quickly at room temperature, that’s not a problem if you roll it out between sheets of waxed paper. Should it start looking greasy and slack, just throw the whole sandwich in the fridge until it firms up again.
For 2 (9 inch) crusts:
2 c. all purpose flour
1 tsp. sugar
½ tsp. salt
½ lb. cold butter
1/3 to ½ c. sour cream
1. Put flour, sugar and salt in a processor fitted with the steel blade. Pulse to mix.
2. Cut the butter into 10 or 12 pieces, drop them into the flour mixture and stir (I use a table knife) to coat each piece with flour.
3. Pulse until you have coarse but relatively even meal.
4. Dollop on the smaller amount of sour cream and pulse about 10 times. If the dough has started clumping together, you’re good. If there’s no sign of cohesion, add a bit more sour cream before pulsing again. Divide the clumpy material into 2  piles, placing each on a sheet of plastic wrap. Use the plastic to gently nudge the dough into a disc. Wrap in the plastic and chill at least 4 hours before rolling out.
Note: The basics of this recipe are in no way original to me, but there’s no knowing who first thought of combining the  bit of sour (classically vinegar), to inhibit gluten formation and the use of cream for moistening, which ups the fat content.
Cross sections of piecrust cookies: Sour Cream is at the top, Rough Puff underneath
Cross sections of piecrust cookies: Sour Cream is at the top, Rough Puff underneath
REVERSE ROUGH PUFF PASTRY
This is not classic “rough puff paste,” a genuine pastry recipe that’s almost as much of a pain to make as real deal puff paste itself. Instead, it’s an old fashioned pie crust and puff paste, discovered years ago when I tried a piecrust recipe that had too much fat in it. Not wishing to waste all that butter, lard and washing of the processor, I rolled out the over-rich pastry on a heavily floured surface, sprinkling it with flour at frequent intervals and turning it over from time to time.
Then I folded it. One time (see instructions). Chilled, rolled and chilled again. Voila – flakes! – not nearly as many as puff pastry but still plenty enough. RRP isn’t as tender as sour cream pastry or as light as true puff paste but it’s better than either one for old fashioned double crust fruit pies. The number of steps makes it look time-consuming and complicated. It isn’t.
For 2 (9-10 inch crusts)
2 oz ( ¼ c.) cold lard*
5 oz (10 tbl.) cold butter
1 ½ tsp.lemon juice
½ c. ice water
2 ½ c. all purpose flour
½ tsp. salt
1. Cut the butter and lard into roughly tablespoon-sized pieces. Refrigerate until firm again.
2. Put a wide, shallow mixing bowl in the fridge to chill. Mix the lemon juice with the water and put it in the fridge too. In a processor with the metal blade, pulse 2 c. of the flour and salt to mix.
3. Distribute the fat bits over the flour and stir ( I use a table knife ) to more or less coat each piece with flour.
4. Pulse briefly, just until the fats are in baby lima to pea sized lumps. Transfer the mixture to the chilled bowl.
5. Pour in the water, making a circle about an inch in from the sides of the bowl. Using a fork or your fingertips, toss the mixture until it (mostly) clumps; there will probably be some unincorporated material.
6. Set out 2 large sheets of plastic wrap and put half of the the proto-dough on each. Use the plastic to gently nudge the disparate elements into a tight heap. Wrap tightly and chill at least 4 hours.
7. Remove a heap from the fridge and let it warm up for 10 minutes or so. It should now be willing to coalesce. Using the plastic wrap, manipulate it into a rough rectangle.
8. Sprinkle a work surface with half of the remaining flour and put the dough on it. Press to embed some flour, turn it over and press again. Roll out about 1/8 inch thick, turning and flouring lightly as you go. There will probably be a little flour left over.
9. Fold the dough the long way into thirds, top over center, bottom over top. Fold in the sides by thirds, one over the center, the other on top of it. Wrap in plastic and refrigerate. Repeat with remaining dough and flour.
Pictures below: Left – Dough with big fat lumps just starting to be rolled out. Right – Folded and ready to chill.
leslie land rough puff first roll
leslie land rough puff folded
10. Chill at least 12 hours before rolling out between sheets of waxed paper; then chill again at least an hour, still in the paper,  before fitting it into the pan or making the cheese straws or whatever. All that manipulation makes the dough elastic and if it doesn’t get time to relax the pastry will be tough.
* About that lard: When it’s the real thing, carefully rendered, pure white, solid and innocent of preservatives, this unique fat is unbeatable for making classic piecrust. In addition to enhancing flakiness, good lard adds a subtle, toasty  note that gives depth to the crust flavor. Alas, it’s not easy to find, and the processed lard in boxes in supermarkets isn’t an adequate substitute. Somehow it’s even greasier-tasting than solid shortening, with a whiff of pig thrown in. If good lard eludes you, use all butter; make sure it’s high-fat European style and put in an extra tablespoon.
 Reverse Rough Puff looking more like itself
Reverse Rough Puff scraps in use
Concerning the make-ahead part promised in the last post:
ALL pie crust is (or should be) make-ahead. Standard recipes are always on about chill this and chill that and don’t work it etc. etc. and all of these things are worth paying attention to. But one of the most important – and easiest! – ways to ensure tenderness in piecrust is to let the newly-made dough have a good rest before you roll it out. Tightly wrapped, pie dough keeps in the refrigerator for 3 or 4 days and it freezes very well so there’s no excuse for rushing it.
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Sunday, January 6, 2013

Changes



We recently sold Jared's truck.  Jared had a mix of feelings as he sold it.  He was sad and happy, and melancholy all at the same time.  He has gone through so many changes the last few years and with the sale of this truck it was like the last string cut from his job at his Dad's gravestone company.

On the other hand, I am relieved.


This van is sold as well.  It was good to us over the last 10 years.

We bought a navy blue Suburban which seats 8 of us comfortably.  It is a gas guzzler though.
We also bought a silver Saturn which is a small economy car.  We're told it can get up to 40 miles per gallon of gasoline on the highway.  We'll see.

Friday, December 28, 2012

Debt

I subscribe to a news brief that shows the numbers our nation is facing in debt.  Notable, that is for sure.

The Coming Fiscal Cliff:

National figures:
* U.S. Tax revenue: $2,170,000,000,000
* Fed budget: $3,820,000,000,000
* New debt: $ 1,650,000,000,000
* National debt: $14,271,000,000,000
* Recent budget cuts: $ 38,500,000,000

Let’s remove 8 zeros and pretend it's a household budget:
*Annual family income: $21,700
*Money the family spent: $38,200
*New debt on the credit card: $16,500
*Outstanding balance on the credit card: $142,710
* Total budget cuts so far: $38.50


Thursday, December 13, 2012

Haircut and Choir




I got my haircut on my birthday on Tuesday.  It's a big change and I'm still getting used to it.  Last night at the Ward Christmas party everyone thought I had my hair in a ponytail.  It was funny when I turned my head, they would stop our conversation dead in its' tracks to mention my haircut.  I should have done this a long time ago.  My hair used to take so much time to do in the morning.  I would avoid going swimming and things like that just so I wouldn't have to re-do my long hair.


Last week Eric had his choir performance.  Here is the only picture I got of him.  He loves to sing and he has a good voice.  I hope he keeps taking choir all throughout his schooling.

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Yummy

So Bruce comes up to Jared and says, "Dad, do you want a yummy?"  Jared looks in Bruce's hand and sees an olive, then looks in Bruce's mouth and sees his mouth full of yummy's.  Then Jared says, "Sure, I'll have a yummy."  Bruce then holds out his hand and hands Jared the olive.

Cutest little 3-year old we know.

BYU Football Game With The Sullivans

                               Joseph with his friend Jason, Provo, Utah
                                         
                                    Eric and Joseph

                          Eric, Joseph, and Caden Sullivan at the football game                  

                      Joseph and Jason Sullivan on the car ride home

Eric and Joseph had the rare privilege of going to a BYU football game in Provo a month ago with our neighbors, the Sullivans, who had extra tickets.  They had a blast.  The family they went with invited them to stay overnight in Provo.  It had snowed and so the stadium was pretty empty.  But the boys got to build a snow fort during the game.

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Brigham City Temple


                         Thank you to the nice elderly man who took our family picture!


We went to the Brigham City Temple Open House in the middle of September.  What an awesome experience!  This is our temple.  Our temple used to be the Logan, Utah temple, which is a 25-30 minute drive through the Wellsville, Utah mountains, but now we only have to drive 20 minutes to Brigham City to get to the nearest temple.  Yeah!

Friday, November 30, 2012

Warm Feet

In the winter months, it is not uncommon for me to get chilled in the evenings.  My feet are my biggest problem with this malady.  As I crawl into bed for the night, I often have to crawl back out of bed because my feet are so cold that I can't fall asleep.  And if by chance I do fall asleep, I awaken several times because my body is working so hard to warm itself.  I'll wake up sweaty and even more chilled, only to have to crawl into a hot tub of water.

So, I've learned to just get up and go sit in a hot tub of water for 20 minutes until my body is warmed through.

That was until 5 nights ago....

And this is why I am writing this post.

I have found another faster way to get warm.  And it doesn't require me getting into a hot tub of water.

I get into bed, pull the blankets over my head and create a 'furnace' under the covers.  I breathe under the blankets for as long as I can stand, all the while my entire body is completely covered.  When I feel suffocated, I uncover my mouth only, and breathe the fresh air outside of the covers, while still remaining completely covered.  Within 5 minutes my hands have warmed up, and I fall asleep.

No more waking up shivering and sweaty.  No more frozen feet.  No more late night baths.

I have done this the last 5 nights with the exact same results.  It is a miracle.  

I had often wondered if I were to ever lose my access to hot water, how I would warm up and fall asleep.  Now I know!

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Judgement


"While you should be friendly with all people, select with great care those whom you wish to have close to you. They will be your safeguards in situations where you may vacillate between choices, and you in turn may save them." - Gordon B. Hinckley

Amen!  Close friends influence you.  And you influence them.  Make sure you choose your close friends very carefully.  Make sure you have excellent judgement so that you never, ever lead them astray.  If you don't have excellent judgement, get it.

I watched an interview where Apostle Quentin L. Cook and his wife were interviewed.  At the end of the interview, Sister Cook was asked what advice she might give to those women who weren't married, but who were seeking a mate.  She said something to the effect of finding a man who has excellent judgement.  She said that Quentin has always had excellent judgement and she has been blessed because of it.

Imagine it?  Marriage to a man who has the ability to see easily right from wrong and thereby live his life according to it.

My own judgement has been awful for most of my life.  I am seeking the gift of excellent judgement and the Lord is giving to me.  It is a gift worth seeking out.   Of course, my husbands judgement has been awful too.  Thank the Lord for redemption and the chance to change!

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

A Great Pick-Me-Up


Onward Christian Soldiers.  If you need a pick-me-up, like I often do, here is an excellent discourse by President Benson that does the job.   I underlined a few of my favorite sentences.  Have a great day, my friends!


Christ and the Constitution

(Ezra Taft Benson. Conference Report, April 1967)
Nearly two thousand years ago a perfect man walked the earth: Jesus the Christ. He was the son of a heavenly father and an earthly mother. He is the God of this world, under the Father. He taught men truth, that they might be free. His example and precepts provide the great standard, the only sure way, for all mankind. He became the first and only one who had the power to reunite his body with his spirit after death. By his power all men who have died shall be resurrected. Before him one day we all must stand to be judged by his laws. He lives today and in the not too distant future shall return, in triumph, to subdue his enemies, to reward men according to their deeds, and to assume his rightful role and to rule and reign in righteousness over the entire earth.
Nearly two hundred years ago, some inspired men walked this land of America—not perfect men, but men raised up by the Perfect Man to perform a great work. Foreordained were they, to lay the foundation of this republic, the Lord’s base of operations in these latter days. Blessed by the Almighty in their struggle for liberty and independence, the power of heaven rested on these founders as they drafted that great document for governing men, the Constitution of the United States. Like the Ten Commandments, the truths on which the Constitution was based were timeless; and also, as with the Decalogue, the hand of the Lord was in it. They filled their mission well. From them we were endowed with a legacy of liberty—a constitutional republic.
But today the Christian constitutionalist mourns for his country. He sees the spiritual and political faith of his fathers betrayed by wolves in sheep’s clothing. He sees the forces of evil increasing in strength and momentum under the leadership of Satan, the archenemy of freedom. He sees the wicked honored and the valiant abused. He senses that his own generation faces Gethsemanes and Valley Forges that may yet rival or surpass the trials of the early apostles and the men of ’76. And this gives him cause to reflect on the most basic of fundamentals, the reason for our existence. Once we understand the fundamental purpose for mortality, we may more easily chart a correct course in the perilous seas that are engulfing our nation.
This life is a probation: a probation in which you and I prove our mettle, a probation that has eternal consequences for each of us. And now is our time and season—as every generation has had theirs—to learn our duties and to do them.
The Lord has so arranged things in this life that men are free agents unto themselves to do good or evil. The Lord allows men to go only so far, but the latitude is great enough that some men promote much wickedness and other men much righteousness.
Clearly, there would be little trial of faith if we received our full reward immediately for every goodly deed, or immediate retribution for every sin. But that there will be an eventual reckoning for each, there is no question.
The Lord is displeased with wickedness, and he will help those who oppose it. But he has given all of us freedom to choose, while reserving for himself our final judgment. And herein lies the hope of all Christian constitutionalists. Why? Because the fight for freedom is God’s fight, and free agency is an eternal principle. It existed before this world was formed; it will exist forever. Some men may succeed in denying some aspects of this God-given freedom to their fellowmen, but their success is temporary. Freedom is a law of God, an eternal law. And, like any of God’s laws, men cannot break it with impunity. They can only break themselves upon it. So as long as a man stands for freedom, he stands with God. Therefore, any man will be eternally vindicated and rewarded who stands for freedom.
Men receive blessings by obedience to God’s laws, and without obedience there is no blessing. Before the final triumphal return of the Lord, the question as to whether we may save our constitutional republic is simply based on two factors: the number of patriots and the extent of their obedience.
That the Lord desires to save this nation that he raised up, there is no doubt. But that he leaves it up to us, with his help, is the awful reality.
There is a time and season for all righteous things, and many of life’s failures arise when men neither take the time nor find the season to perform their eternal duties. What, then, in this time and season may best equip us to save our Christian constitutional legacy, while at the same time rescuing our own souls? May I humbly submit six suggestions:
1. Spirituality. In the Book of Mormon, sacred to me as scripture, the Lord states that America is a land choice above all others and that it shall remain free so long as the inhabitants worship the God of the land, Jesus Christ.
Certainly spirituality is the foundation upon which any battle against sin and tyranny must be waged. And because this is basically the struggle of the forces of Christ versus antichrist, it is imperative that our people be in tune with the supreme leader of freedom, the Lord our God. Men stay in tune only when their lives are in harmony with God, for apart from God we cannot succeed, but as a partner with God, we cannot fail. We must be in the amoral and immoral world, but not of it.
2. Balance. We have many responsibilities, and one cannot expect the full blessings of a kind Providence if he neglects any major duty.
A man has duties to his church, his home, his country, and his profession or job.
Duty to church: Each man, in communication with God, must determine his responsibility to the Church. This becomes a serious consideration in a day when many pulpits are being turned into pipelines of collectivist propaganda, preaching the social gospel and denying basic principles of salvation. The least any Christian can do is to study daily the word of the Lord and seek divine aid through daily prayer. We invite all men to examine prayerfully The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints—the Mormon Church—which I testify is the Church of Christ, restored to the earth and led today by a prophet of God.
Duty to home: Fathers, you cannot delegate your duty as the head of the home. Mothers, train up your children in righteousness; do not attempt to save the world and thus let your own fireside fall apart. For many years now the Mormon Church has advised parents to set aside one night a week when the family meets together for an evening at home. At this time family goals and duties are discussed, spiritual guidance given, and recreation enjoyed. To this end the Church has published and distributes, free of charge, a home evening manual with helpful suggestions for each week’s activities.
The duty of parents is to be of help to each other and to their children; then comes their duty to their neighbors, community, nation, and world, in that order. The home is the rock foundation, the cornerstone of civilization. No nation will ever rise above its homes.
Duty to country: No one can delegate his duty to preserve his freedom, for the price of liberty is still eternal vigilance. There are now thousands of businessmen behind the iron curtain who, if they had their lives to live over, would balance their time more judiciously and give more devotion to their civic responsibilities. An ounce of energy in the preservation of freedom is worth a ton of effort to get it back once it is lost.
Duty to job: Every man should provide the necessities of food, clothing, and shelter for his family. As Paul wrote to Timothy: “But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” (1 Tim. 5:8.)
Indolence invites the benevolent straightjacket of the character-destroying welfare state. But a man pays too high a price for worldly success if in his climb to prominence he sacrifices his spiritual, home, and civic responsibilities. How a person should apportion his time among his several duties requires good judgment and is a matter over which each should invite divine assistance.
3. Courageous action. I believe that, while we should ask the Lord’s blessings on all our doings and should never do anything upon which we cannot ask his blessings, we should not expect the Lord to do for us what we can do for ourselves. I believe in faith and works, and that the Lord will bless more fully the man who works for what he prays for than he will the man who only prays.
Today you cannot effectively fight for freedom and not be attacked, and those who think they can are deceiving themselves. While I do not believe in stepping out of the path of duty to pick up a cross I do not need, a man is a coward who refuses to pick up a cross that clearly lies within his path.
A man must not only stand for the right principles, but he must also fight for them. Those who fight for principle can be proud of the friends they’ve gained and the enemies they’ve earned.
4. Education. We must each of us do our homework. We must be wise as serpents; for, as the apostle Paul said, we wrestle “against the rulers of the darkness. . . , against spiritual wickedness in high places.” (Eph. 6:12.)
We are going through the greatest, most insidious propaganda campaign of all time. Even the character-destroying “credibility gap” seems to be gaining respectability. We cannot believe all we read, and what we can believe is not all of the same value. We must sift. We must learn by study and prayer.
Study the scriptures and study the mortals who have been most consistently accurate about the most important things. When your freedom and your eternal welfare are at stake, your information had better be accurate.
5. Health. To meet and beat the enemy will require clear heads and strong bodies. Hearts and hands grow strong, based on what they are fed. Let us take into our bodies and souls only those things that will make us more effective instruments. We need all the physical, mental, and moral power we can get.
Righteous concern about conditions is commendable when it leads to constructive action. But undue worry is debilitating. When we have done what we can do, then let’s leave the rest to God.
Man needs beneficial recreation, a change of pace that refreshes him for heavy tasks ahead. Man also must take time to meditate, to sweep the cobwebs from his mind, so that he might get a more firm grip on the truth and spend less time chasing phantoms and dallying in projects of lesser worth.
Clean hearts and healthful food, exercise, early sleep and fresh air, wholesome recreation and mediation, combined with optimism that comes from fighting for the right and knowing you’ll eventually win for keeps—this is the tonic every true Christian patriot needs and deserves.
6. Be Prepared. We have a duty to survive, not only spiritually but also physically. Not survival at the cost of principles, for this is the surest way to defeat, but a survival that comes from intelligent preparation. We face days ahead that will test the moral and physical sinews of all of us.
The scriptural parable of the five wise and the five foolish virgins is a reminder that one can wait too long before he attempts to get his spiritual and temporal house in order. Are we prepared?
A man should not only be prepared to protect himself physically, but he should also have on hand sufficient supplies to sustain himself and his family in an emergency. For many years the leaders of the Mormon Church have recommended, with instructions, that every family have on hand at least a year’s supply of basic food, clothing, fuel (where possible), and provisions for shelter. This has been most helpful to families suffering temporary reverses. It can and will be useful in many circumstances in the days ahead. We also need to get out of financial bondage, to be debt free.
Now these suggestions regarding spirituality, balance, courageous action, education, health, and preparation are given not only to help equip one for the freedom struggle, but also to help equip one for eternal life.
Those who hesitate to get into this fight because it is controversial fail to realize that life’s decisions should be based on principles, not on public opinion polls.
There were men at Valley Forge who weren’t sure how the revolution would end, but they were in a much better position to save their own souls and their country than those timid men whose major concern was deciding which side was going to win, or how to avoid controversy.
The basic purpose of life is to prove ourselves, not to be with the majority when it is wrong. Those who hesitate to get into the fight for freedom because they’re not sure if we’re going to win fail to realize that we will win in the long run, and for good.
Time is on the side of truth, and truth is eternal. Those who are fighting against freedom and other eternal principles of right may feel confident now, but they are shortsighted.
This is still God’s world. The forces of evil, working through some mortals, have made a mess of a good part of it. But it is still God’s world. In due time, when each of us has had a chance to prove himself—including whether or not we are going to stand up for freedom—God will interject himself, and the final and eternal victory shall be for free agency. And then shall those weak-willed souls on the sidelines and those who took the wrong but temporarily popular course lament their decisions.
Let us get about our business, for any Christian constitutionalist who retreats from this battle jeopardizes his life here and hereafter. Seldom has so much responsibility hung on so few, so heavily; but our numbers are increasing, and we who have been warned have a responsibility to warn our neighbor.
To his disciples, the Lord said that they should be of good cheer, for he had overcome the world—and so he had. And so can we, if we are allied with him. Time is on the side of truth, and the wave of the future is freedom. There is no question of the eventual, final, and lasting triumph of righteousness. The major question for each of us is what part will we play in helping to bring it to pass.
This is a glorious hour in which to live. Generations past and future will mark well our response to our awe-some duty. There is a reason why we have been born in this day. Ours is the task to try to live and perpetuate the principles of the Christ and the Constitution in the face of tremendous odds. May we, with God’s help, have strength for the battle and fill our mission in honor for God, family, and country.
The Lord declared that “if ye are prepared ye shall not fear.” (D&C 38:39). May we prepare, then fear not, I humbly pray.